Bondage, Fetish & Sexuality

Wednesday, 14 May 2014 Crista

fetish-fantasy-leather-bondage-cuffs“How is she going to get out of this!” my friend asked aghast as if watching a magic act instead of a bondage demonstration.

The woman tied up at the moment was tangled in rope and cuffs, overshadowing a tight corset that pushed up her breasts, sexy dark underpants, black stockings and heels. It was my first live experience with female bondage and I hoped the others in the room hadn’t heard my friend’s naïve remark whether intentional or not.

The exhibit took place during a science fiction-fantasy convention. Yes, bondage, fetishes and mistresses of the dark have long been featured players in the sci-fi and comic book scene. Along with space cadet outfits and the occasional nerd wearing Star Trek Spock ears, fetish costumes are not uncommon in sci-fi fantasy fandom.

Impromptu exhibits sometimes spread to hotel rooms, and may include performances for the sexually curious, in this case a lesson in the lifestyles of the master and slave.

“I don’t think she wants to get out of it,” I whispered to my friend as we gathered with about a dozen others in the room to learn about bondage, restraints and things that go bump in the night. Some guy was wrapping cotton rope around the woman’s upper body, under her arms, her tightly fastened corset already accentuating her trim waist and ample bosom.

Then he twirled the rope around her neck, back under her breasts, securing it snugly without causing undue pain to the smiling model. He pulled out another rope to tie her arms. Leather wrist cuffs came next with two more leather cuffs around her ankles.

At this point, I noticed a well-dressed couple, eyes wide open, apparently in disbelief.

They somehow stumbled upon the demonstration on their way to another exhibit, but this was no Chronicles of Narnia.

The model in the demonstration was still able to use her hands to describe the procedures involved in female bondage. The idea evolves around erotic fantasy. The pleasure of being tied up fulfills a desire for sexual helplessness, which can enhance a couple’s relationship as with any other fantasy. The restraints used in bondage increase sexual pleasure and can provide a form of foreplay at times.

The one held in bondage must submit to the sexual desires of the partner because of the restraints. Both male and female partners can role-play in submitting to being a sex object. The submissive partner can even enjoy sexual satisfaction if the other partner stimulates the tied partner through masturbation, a vibrator or other means.

At this point, the wide-eyed couple turned eyes wide shut, leaving the tied-down presentation in apparent puzzlement. But then again, maybe they were rushing to the nearest Wal-Mart for some rope and plastic handcuffs before heading back to their room. They did seem in a bit of a hurry. This may have also been on the mind of many attendees, including a few couples. They watched the demonstration closely and listened intently for tips they, too, might be using later on.

When the model finished her lesson on dominant and submissive pleasure to enhance romance, it was time for another demonstration, involving restraints on the male genitalia. She pulled out a plastic cock in a metal harness and placed it on a table. My friend suggested it was our turn to leave before they needed a volunteer, especially since the seemingly submissive lady had a grin as wide as a pickle barrel. Better to stick with being a cucumber for the time being.

We still had a lot to learn about female bondage and male restraints.

Although the sexual activity in photography and films often portrays female bondage, men also enjoy the fantasy of being tied up, especially when they are “forced” to engage in sex with a dominant woman. Let the force be with you.

You can include a variety of fantasies during your bondage episodes. Perhaps the woman would prefer dressing as a naughty schoolgirl or assume the rank of a leather slave. Maybe she’d like to switch roles as the school disciplinarian. A law officer uniform makes for fun enforcement when it comes to both male and female bondage.

The world of fetish sex toys actually provides hours of relief and enjoyment for couples that want to enhance the game of love through bondage gear and role-playing. Body harnesses, Velcro cuffs, furry or sexy silk restraints, soft silk rope, leashes and collars allow you to explore your deepest desires whether you choose to be in control or at the mercy of your partner.

Bondage, as it turns out, can prolong sex sessions and stimulate your love life. Light bondage for vanilla practitioners provides a pleasant introduction with such packages as a Restraint Kit that features sexy black mask blindfolds, Velcro cuffs and delicate strands from a mini whip.

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