Introduction to Bondage Play & Toys

bondage shoes2Do you want to experiment with kinky toys or bondage ideas but don't know where to start?

The ideas of domination or submission have been around a long time but it isn't until recently that BDSM has become increasingly popular thanks to books such as Fifty Shades of Grey.

Some couples may not want to go all the way into hardcore BDSM practices but a little bit of teasing and spanking can be wonderful.

In fact, there are many different levels of bondage and sub/dom relationships and just as many bondage toys and restraints out there that could fulfill all your requirements. Novices can begin with simple bondage kits, ball gags or restraints; progressing to collars and leashes, whips and electrostimulation for the BDSM fanatics.

It is important to set limits on what you do and make sure you have a safe word such that couples would know when to stop if things go out of hand. However, a little bit of bondage or domination can electrify your night and turn it into an unforgettable experience.

If you ever think that your sex life is a bit dull, then these bondage toys would surely take it to the next level!


Ball Gags

bondage-ball-gag-training-system2What better way to start off the list than with the mighty ball gag. With this device, you can definitely shut up your partner for good and dominate over him or her. There are many different types of ball gags but they all consist of a silicone or rubber ball connected to a strap.

The ball goes into the mouth behind the teeth and the strap is then tied around the head and secured. A good ball gag should be comfortable to wear and let the wearer some room to breath through their mouth. 

 Recommended Brands: Fetish Fantasy Series Ball Gags, Sex & Mischief (Sportsheets) 

 

 


Blindfolds

bondage-blind-fold-50-shades-of-greyBlindfolds are a great way of increasing sexual arousal by eliminating somebody's ability to see. Without any visual cues, you are reliant on your other senses of taste, smell and touch. Not knowing what to expect can be an exhilarating experience and a lot of people have commented that it vastly boosted their imagination and sexual appetite.

A proper blindfold should fit around the head but should not be too tight. The other reason to get appropriate blindfolds is that they fit around the eyes and avoid leaving pressure marks on the face or the bridge of the nose.

 Recommended Brands: Sex & Michief Blindfolds, Fetish Fantasy Series Blindfolds, Fifty Shades of Grey

 


Bondage kits

bondage-kinky-kitty-bondage-kitIf you don't know where to start, then these kits are ideal for the beginner. Basic bondage kits contain simple restraints or blindfolds to prepare your first step into the BDSM world.

More advanced kits are available to tailor for other users who already have some experience in domination and submission. These contain whips, ticklers and other BDSM goodies which are a lot cheaper than if you purchase them individually. It is a great way to add to your sex toy collection and expand your horizon.

 Recommended Brands: Sex & Mischief Bondage Kits, Fetish Fantasy Series Bondage Kits

 

 


Chastity Belts

bondage-chastity-beltsIf you really want to dominate over somebody, what better way than preventing them from masturbating or having sex? Chastity belts are used frequently by couples either during foreplay or as part of a longer term agreement.

There are different types of chastity belts, some of which have more sophisticated designs than others. Some designs prevent the user from touching their genitals completely whereas others allow a degree of masturbation. The ultimate aim is to frustrate the user and allow the dominator decide when to allow sexual release. 

 Recommended Brands: Master Series, CB-6000

 

 


Collars and Leashes

bondage-desir-collarWearing a collar is a way of symbolizing submission and surrendering of ownership in a BDSM relationship. Collars can be made from leather or rubber and it is important to find the correct size to fit your partner's neck.

Some fancy models have extra decorations or straps to hold the collar in place. It is an old fashioned but still very popular toy in current adult stores. 

 Recommended Brands: Sex & Mischief Collars, Bijoux Collars/Leashes

 

 


Bondage Cuffs

bondage-cuffsOne of the best ways of restraining or immobilizing your partner is to use proper bondage cuffs. Unlike traditional handcuffs, these are designed for comfort in mind particularly in long bondage sessions. They are usually made from soft leather and contains lots of padding. Once fitted around the wrists or ankles, they allow you to tie your partner into your favorite bondage position. 

 Recommended Brands: Bijoux, Fetish Fantasy Series Cuffs

 

 

 


Extreme

bondage-master-series-penis-plugNot everybody is into extreme BDSM practices but if you are then there are other bondage tools. Toys such as armbinders, suspension equipment, leg spreaders can satisfy even the most hardcore players. The boundary is only limited by your imagination and a lot of people delve into the masochistic and sadistic elements. 

Recommended Brands: Fetish Fantasy Series Extreme Bondage, Rapture Extreme Bondage, Master Series

 

 

 


Electrostimulation

bondage-fetish-fantasy-shock-therapyEver wondered what it would feel like to have an electric current pass through your intimate regions? These toys create a safe environment where electricity can be used to enhance your domination.

Most models are battery powered as opposed to plugged into the mains supply, in order to prevent accidental discharge. Electrodes can be connected to genitals, nipples, vaginal plugs, cock rings or sometimes directly into the prostate. 

Recommended Brands: Zeus Electrosex, Mystim, Fetish Fantasy Series Shock Therapy

 

 


Nipple Play

bondage-glass-nipple-suckersBondage toys cannot be complete without nipple clamps and these are also widely used in the BDSM community. These are applied on the nipples and the tension can be increased slowly until the appropriate effect. It is easily assembled and provides excellent erotic stimulation to one of the most sensitive areas on the body.

Recommended Brands: Fetish Fantasy Series Nipple Play, California Exotic Novelties

 

 

 


Restraints

bondage-fetish-fantasy-harnessThese can be simple restraints such as bondage cuffs or collars all the way to medical straitjackets and suspension gear. Under the bed restraints can secure your partner on the bed without damaging the headboard. 

Bondage gear and sex toys help to spice up your sex life to no end. Everything from simple restraints to proper slings, suspension gear and wrist and ankle restraints make your partner feel simply helpless. 

Recommended Brands: Sex & Mischief Restraints, Fetish Fantasy Series Restraints

 

 


Sex Furniture

bondage-fetish-fantasy-door-swingWant to turn your cellar into a bondage dungeon? Check out the collection of bondage gear, stockades and benches, cages and suspension binders to complete your collection. 

 Recommended Brands: Fetish Fantasy Series Sex Furniture, Adventure Industries

 

 

 

 

 


Sex Machines

bondage-sex-machinesThese machines can be inserted into your partner when they are all tied up in your favorite restraints. There are many options including vibrators and wands to take your partner into a world of ecstasy.

Recommended Brands: Lovebotz, Fetish Fantasy Series Sex Machines

 

 

 

 


Whips

bondage-whipsBDSM toys cannot be complete without the whip, which is an instrument that when yielded properly can generate the ultimate erotic sensation. Buying a good whip is essential if you want it to last long and it should be easy to handle. Most are leather whips and bear in mind that longer whips are more difficult to wield. 

Recommended Brands: Sex & Mischief Whips, Fetish Fantasy Series

 

 

 


Paddles & Ticklers

bondage-fetish-paddleFor some light-hearted BDSM play, paddles are excellent for a good old spanking session. Alternatively, you can try feather ticklers on the most sensitive parts of your submissive's body. You can combine with a blindfold for the ultimate erotic experience.


 Recommended Brands: Sex & Mischief Paddles/Ticklers, Fetish Fantasy Series Paddles & Ticklers

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